Stop feeling sorry for yourself and how much your life has changed over the last year. It is what it is. Embrace it. Enough!
Don’t settle for bad men or men who don’t value your woman-ness. Don’t wait for them to get it. Some may never figure out how wonderful you are. But what happens to you while your waiting for them to get it? Nothing. Enough!
Cease fighting in court about who screwed who over more financially. Come to some agreement and move on. Whining, crying and being bitter is not going to change things or make things better. It actually hurts your heart to stay angry at someone who you once loved. So what if they are still angry at you? None of that is your business. You have children to raise and a wonderful life to live. Don’t give it all away in legal fees. Enough!
Stop reminiscing about the past and what should have been or what should have happened. It didn’t and it sure doesn’t mean your life is over. Love the fact that you had the opportunity to fall in love and be loved. Yes, the two of you are no longer together but it doesn’t mean that it wasn’t worth the time you had together. With every love story, comes heart ache. Some people stay together and some don’t. Maybe its over. Maybe it’s not. Maybe you will get back together and all of this won’t matter. But you can’t get to that point, if your still living in the past. Enough!
Stop being fearful about your journey that is in front of you. What is there to be fearful of? There are so many cool people you can meet, places to see, homes to live in, cities to dance in. Stop, holding your heart and life out for the perfect love, or the one person who won’t hurt you. People hurt people. It’s not always intentional. Forgive. Enough!
Please fall in love again. Find a wonderful man. Maybe it’s the ex or maybe it’s not. Just do it. It feels good and you will love yourself for it.
Live, laugh out loud, drive with the window open, learn to swim, make a fancy meal in pajama’s, save for your house. Just go out there and don’t be afraid of falling or failing. All great people fall once in their life. Ask them!
And above all things. Learn to forgive, it will do your soul greatness.
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